Im in debt up to my eyeballs6/26/2023 ![]() If I lose my house, I lose my house, but I realised that if I didn't stop, I may have lost a lot more. Take time off for self-reflection, be there for your kids, give your spouse a break. Speak up about your issues, don't try and fight alone. Now I feel like I have finally come out the other end of a tunnel I don’t ever remember walking into. I've had time for me and for the work I needed to do personally. I've spend more time with then than I have in the proceeding 3 years of non-stop work. But I pray that Im in debt up to my eyeballs and am bad with money because. I didn't realise how bad things were, and the personal toll it was taking on me and my young family. Since the day she was born we have been nurturing her, watching her develop. ![]() It was like the proverbial frog in the boiling pot. I’m calmer with my children (4-year old twins are an uphill battle, especially if your son is like a little version of you lol). I'm getting on top of the issues that have dogged me my entire life and my anxiety (beyond money issues) is all but gone. My mental health is orders of magnitude better, I've changed my meds, I'd had a massive breakthrough in my therapy, I feel like a changed man. But do you know what else? I haven't been happier in years. I finally have some work starting, but it's been tough. I'm up to my eyeballs in debt, I've had to take money out of my retirement income. I’ve Stopped Hemorrhaging Money, but Now I’m in Debt up to my Eyeballs An unfortunate side effect to a few months of hemorrhaging money for whatever reason can be tons of debt. I wasn't happy and I was struggling to cope with being away from home ever week for 4/5 days.įast forward 5 and a half months and I've only billed for 3.5 days of work, effectively being unemployed during this time. Years of “just getting on with it” coupled with financial, interpersonal and familial challenges were taking their toll. I was stressed, depressed, highly anxious and as a result, performing badly at work. I left my job at the end of October last year.
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